His plan all along was to start contributing money from the onset, then abandon everything for me to do. But it turned out that he had other plans. I thought I was being helpful to my man by supporting him to get everything we needed for our marriage ceremony to be successful. Kwame and I are both on the government payroll and are doing well but during our marriage preparation, I started wondering where he keeps his money.įrom that moment till now, he always has to wait for the month to end before he can have some money for himself. By then, I had already bought some of the items so there were only a few of them left to buy. When he eventually came with his family to see my people to perform the knocking rites, they took the marriage list. Later, I thought things through and decided to buy some items on my family list, and then officially go for the list from my family later. So I took the money but I didn’t buy anything immediately. I told him, “I’m not going to agree to us having any sexual relationship until we are married.” So I figured the money was his way of assuring me that he had plans for us to get married. So I asked him, “What is this money for?” He answered, “Use it to start buying things for our marriage rites.” This happened right after he tried to sleep with me and I turned him down. After all, I also eat the food.”Ī month after we met, he brought me a sum of money unprovoked. It bothered me but I brushed it off with the thought, “It’s not a big deal. One thing I noticed was, Kwame ate my food comfortably without asking how much I spend to cook. Sometimes, I visited him and still cooked for him. As we got to know each other better, he often visited me. It doesn’t have to be anything messy.” He agreed with me, and we were off to a good start. If at the end of the day, I don’t fit into what you want in a woman you can go your way and I will go mine. Just take your time and get to know people and take things one step at a time. Sometimes you don’t have to quickly write people off. I assured him, “Not all women and men are the same.
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